Unity is defined as the act, state or quality of wholeness; of harmony achieved through the joining together of different parts. Since life involves the complex relationship between many different “parts” (far more than we even know), humanity’s experience of unity has long been considered a challenge: rare, elusive, and perhaps even impossible.
It comes as no surprise that even the most successful, “spiritual” or contented individuals can feel disconnected, lonely, out of place, or like something vital is missing. The yearning for internal (emotional, physical, mental, spiritual) cohesiveness, as well as for unity with and between others (family members, friends, co-workers, neighbors, political parties, nations, eco-systems, etc.) is apparently timeless and universal.
But unity is often envisioned as something existing only in the distant past: in the biblical Garden of Eden, childhood, the mother’s womb, etc. Or in the distant future: that perfect job, partner, president, or heavenly lair. And/or as something that involves voluntary suppression of intellect and reason in the here and now.
Over the centuries stories, philosophies, religions and secular laws have sought to explain and remedy the human experience of separateness, of restless discontent, fear and yearning so common within and among us all. Many of them contribute to and worsen the problem through divisive doctrines inspiring “divinely sanctioned” fear and abuse of others, as well as paralyzing guilt and self-hatred.
But it’s important to know that they can also offer helpful insights, guidelines and practices. Learning about the beliefs, rituals and stories of other traditions can encourage a healthy balance between the fact that we are complex individuals, and are part of a greater whole - that remains largely mysterious to us! In doing so, we can come closer to understanding who we are and need to be, for ourselves and for one another.
Unitarian Universalism encourages and protects diversity (all the “parts” that make up the whole of life), as well as the freedom to figure out what helps to create UNITY and what hinders.
There’s no prescription formula for this. But your experiences, curiosity, insights and covenanted good will are valued essentials!